Fort Lauderdale Divorce Lawyer BlogWhen a third grade teacher recently got divorced, she had trouble explaining the concept to her two children, ages 4 and 7. While the children had some knowledge about a divorce, the wife decided to read books that dealt with child custody matters such as time-sharing, shared parental responsibility and parenting plans in order to help her children understand what their parents were going through. Now, divorce attorneys in Miami-Dade and Broward may recommend that you purchase a book by Kristi Schwartz titled Divorced Together For the Sake of Children. The book was released on January 22, 2010 and may help Florida children understand about a divorce.
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Divorce Attorneys In Fort Lauderdale Should Avoid Ambiguities When Drafting Property, Child Support & Alimony Agreements
Sandy T. Fox, Esquire, a divorce lawyer in Broward and Miami-Dade, represented the Former Wife in an enforcement proceeding in the Florida marital and family law court located north of Fort Lauderdale. The equitable distribution provision of the marital settlement agreement provided that the Former Wife was to receive $141,263.72 from the Former Husband. The Former Husband retained his real property in New York. While no date of payment to the Former Wife was specified in the marital settlement agreement, the final judgment of dissolution of marriage ordered the parties to comply with the marital settlement agreement.
The Former Wife filed a motion to enforce the equitable distribution provision of the final judgment since the Former Husband had only made 5 incremental payments. At the hearing, she testified that she was to receive $141,263.72 upon entry of the final judgment. On the otherhand, the Former Husband testified that the Former Wife was to be paid upon the sale of his New York property.
On appeal in the case of Crespo v. Crespo, the Former Wife argued that the trial court erred in admitting parol evidence as to the intent of the parties. In affirming the decision of the divorce court located north of Ft. Lauderdale, the Fourth District Court of Appeal found that the marital settlement agreement contained a latent ambiguity since it failed to specify the time in which the Former Wife was to receive payment from the Former Husband. The court explained that a latent ambiguity arises when the language in a contract is clear and intelligible and suggests a single meaning, but some extrinsic fact or extraneous evidence creates a necessity for interpretation or a choice among two or more possible meanings.
Broward Divorce Attorneys Explain How To Have The Divorce Talk With Children
When you meet with your Fort Lauderdale divorce lawyer, you will ask many questions related to alimony, child support, property distribution and child custody matters such as time-sharing and a parenting plan. However, Broward divorce lawyers are often asked how a client should tell their children that they are getting divorced.
Couples should try to separate before filing for divorce and explain to their children that they have not been getting along very well and want to see if that helps. Never blame the other parent, even if there was an affair or other reason that you are filing for divorce. Once you have your new living arrangements it is important to discuss this with your children since it is important for them to know what will and what will not change in their lives.
It is very important for you to explain to your children that the divorce is not their fault and has nothing to do with anything that they have done. While you should encourage your children to ask questions, it is important to give them time to adjust. Last but not list, have your children meet with a therapist if they are not adjusting well if you observe sleeplessness, clinginess, angry acting out, truancy, depression and drug or alcohol use. If you do not know a therapist for your children, you can always ask your Fort Lauderdale divorce attorney for a suggestion.
Children With Cancer Does Not Increase Broward Divorce Risk
Fort Lauderdale divorce attorneys have learned that new research suggests that dealing with a child that has cancer does not generally increase the risk for couples to divorce in Broward. After studying 978,000 married couples, researchers learned that that divorce rates between 1974 and 2001 were not higher amongst parties who had a child that suffered from cancer when compared to other parents. When other factors such as a parent’s age and family income, parents who had a child were 4% more likely to get divorced than other parents. However, researchers found that the difference was insignificant in statistical terms.
While there tends to be a general perception that the strain of having a child or spouse with cancer may put couples at risk of a hiring a divorce lawyer in Fort Lauderdale, this perception is an unsubstantiated myth that may add another burden to the people afflicted by cancer. There was no evidence that a child’s cancer raised the risk of divorce in general or that parents are more likely to divorce in their child died of cancer.
However, researchers did find an increased risk of 16% in mother’s who had a college education, compared with those with only a high school education. The risk for divorce was evident during the first 5 years of the child’s diagnosis with cancer. While the reasons for these findings are unknown, further studies are needed to confirm the finding on a mother’s education and to tease out the reason’s for it.
Broward Divorce Lawyers Do Not Want Divorce To Hurt Your Health
After your Fort Lauderdale divorce lawyer has finished your case, you will settle into a new home, organize the time-sharing, parenting plan and child custody aspects of your Florida divorce case and restructure your finances. This can be a trying time for your health and well-being. Researchers have found that 20% of divorced people have chronic health conditions such as heart disease, diabetes or cancer, than those who are married. While the transition to marriage brings an immediate health benefit, if that marriage fails your health can be damaged if you do not take care of yourself.
A divorce in Broward can be very tough on you and your children. It can be very easy to neglect your health and allow it to slide when you and your spouse are fighting about child support and alimony. However, there are many ways to fortify your health during this difficult period of time so that you come out of your divorce feeling stronger and healthier.
It is important to reduce conflict during your Florida divorce. The greater the conflict in your divorce, the greater the chance of physical or mental health problems. Even if your Ft. Lauderdale divorce lawyer does not win all of the aspects of your case for you, it is important to try to enter into a marital settlement agreement as soon as possible so that your children will not be exposed to conflict. Research has shown that children exposed to conflict experience more behavioral and emotional problems.
Florida Judges And Fort Lauderdale Divorce Attorneys Can’t Be Facebook Friends
The Miami Herald is reporting that Florida’s Judicial Ethics Advisory Committee believes that Florida judges should not be friends with lawyers on Facebook or other social networking websites. In the ruling, the committee held that when judges and lawyers are “friends” it creates a conflict of interest. The online friendship could be interpreted that lawyer “friends” are in a special position to influence a judge. However, judges are permitted to post items and links on other judge’s social networking websites.
Fights Over Money Predict Ft. Lauderdale Divorce Rates
Residents of Broward cities such as Hollywood, Weston, Davie and Plantation may find themselves having disagreements with their spouse over marital finances. With unemployment at an all time high and a depressed real estate market, finance related tension is causing couples to speak to and retain a Fort Lauderdale divorce attorney.
The New York Times is reporting that finance related tension between married couples raises the risk of divorce. A recent study from Utah State University found that couples who disagree about finances one time per week were over 30 percent more likely to get divorced than couples who reported disagreeing about finances a few times a month.
2800 couples were asked, separately, about how often they had a disagreement with their spouse over chores, in-laws, spending time together, sex and money. Several years later, these couples were contacted again and asked if they were still married. Out of all of the items that couples fight over, money disputes were most indicative of a divorce. While wives believed that disputes over finances and sex were good predictors of divorce, they believed that finance disputes were much stronger predictors. For husbands, they believed that financial disagreements were the highest indicator of whether they would get divorced.
Military And Armed Services Divorce Rate Up
Many men and women from Broward that are enlisted in the military may find themselves in need of a Fort Lauderdale divorce lawyer. According to an article published in the USA Today and Sun Sentinel, divorce rates for soldiers enlisted in the Army increased for the seventh year. 10,000.00 married G.I.’s divorced during the fiscal 2009. It is also being reported that 4% of marriages among soldiers failed.
The Army has found that an increasing number of U.S troops in Iraq complain about troubled marriages as a result of long and multiple deployments to Iraq. While the pressures of being away from family is more prevalent for young soldiers, there has been recent affect on senior enlisted soldiers as well.
The Air Force is also reporting a 4.3% divorce rate this years. However, the Army has 100,000 more married troops than the Air Force. The Marines is reporting a 4% divorce rate that has remained steady from 2008 to 2009. While the civilian divorce rate in the USA was recently 3.4%, the total divorce rate for the U.S. military has increase from 3.4% to 3.6% in 2009.
Ft. Lauderdale Divorce Lawyers Adapt To Changes In Alimony
Over the past couple years, the concept of alimony has changed and evolved as a result of recent appellate decisions in Florida. Many women who hire an attorney and file for divorce in Fort Lauderdale are now employed, self supporting and earning comparable pay as to their husband. In addition, the average length of a marriage has decreased. Accordingly, the amount of cases in which Broward divorce lawyers have permanent alimony awarded to their client has decreased. Also, the amount and duration of alimony has also been reduced.
The Florida legislature amended Florida Statute 61.14 to permit a payor spouse to seek to reduce or eliminate his or her alimony obligation when their former spouse is in a supportive relationship while remaining unmarried. The court will look at many different factors such as how long the recipient has resided with another person, whether they have pooled their assets or income and the extent to which the recipient has supported the other and whether or not they have jointly acquired any assets or property.
Alimony is based upon the need of one spouse for alimony and the other spouse’s ability to pay. However, the days of focusing on the standard of living that the parties have been accustomed to during the course of the intact marriage is not as significant. In the past, a divorce attorney in Broward would hire a forensic accountant to perform a lifestyle analysis. The forensic accountant would analyze tax returns, bank statements, check registers and credit card statements to ascertain a spouse’s needs, the other spouse’s ability to pay and the historical spending during the marriage. However, gone are the days that a spouse receives alimony which comprises of all of the luxuries accustomed to during the marriage including, but not limited to, spa visits, country club memberships, vacations and clothing allowances.
Financial Decisions To Make During Your Ft. Lauderdale Divorce (Part 2)
In the last blog, I spoke about several financial decisions that you should discuss and make with your Ft. Lauderdale divorce attorney. During your divorce, you will need to make decisions with huge financial implications. Many of these decisions you are probably not use to making. As you become concerned with child support and alimony, it become easy to lose sight of long-term financial concerns that you face during your Broward divorce case.
When a couple decides to divorce, one of the parties often desires to retain the marital residence in order to provide continuity for the minor children. However, you should sell you home if retaining it would make you house rich and cash poor. It is important to discuss with your Fort Lauderdale divorce attorney the cost of staying in your home and whether or not the alimony and child support you receive coupled with your income will make this feasible.
Your marital and family law attorney can not and should not give you tax advise. It is important that you consult an accountant to learn about the tax consequences related to alimony, retirement accounts, deferred compensation and future tax deductions related to your children.